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Pamela Henry's avatar

Unbelievable, but nevertheless NOT surprising. There is so much that I want to say but at this time my emotions are all over the place. Instead, I will continue to lift you up in prayer and encourage you to continue to be the BEST that you know you are capable of being. 🩷

“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.” Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV) 🙏🏽

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Hi, Jada. I am sorry that your film was not screened. Would love to see it. I can unquestionably see how that would be infuriating, embarrassing, hurtful, and a whole lot of other things, none of them good. I am white. I am a strong believer in excellence, not just in the arts, but in all its forms. In fact, two of my personal beliefs are “if that person can do it, I can do it” and “if something it worth doing, it is worth being great at,” so I share your frustration with mediocrity regardless of race, religion, or other classification. As an artist and creator, I tend to be a perfectionist and as the owner of a medical practice, I tend to be a perfectionist. I have seen excellent teams build on success after success through mindset and I have seen teams make sure that things do not succeed, also based on mindset. I’ve also been on the receiving end of some fucked up shit at the hands of both white and non-white people and conversely, I have equally been given great gifts in the form of friendship, support, and assistance from both. I am sharing my experience only to say that I understand and can relate. Not to all of it, for sure. But unquestionably, to some of it. In the little that I know about you, I have experienced you as a brilliant, meticulous, creative, and beautiful person. My feeling is that you have every making necessary for success and I would love for you to ride that super wave. As for your event, I wasn’t there. I didn’t experience it, and I didn’t see or experience how you were treated. But I can say that I have had similar experiences in the past and I know what it’s like to be othered despite being a white male in America. Please understand that I am not in any way minimizing, discounting, or in any way pushing back on your experience or your feelings. Would love to continue this conversation with you in a format in which lived experiences and nuanced ideas are not misconstrued, but built upon. Keep moving forward.

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